Detective Joseph V. Vigiano
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Maybe there was something in the water.

For some reason, perhaps a dozen men who came of age during the 1970's and 80's in Deer Park, N.Y., developed an appetite for civic duty. They became New York City police officers and firefighters in their professional lives, and volunteer firefighters with Engine Company No. 2 in Deer Park in their personal ones. They called it the Deer Park Connection, and Firefighter John Vigiano and Detective Joseph Vigiano, two of the tightest brothers you could ever find, were among the best-liked and most accomplished members.

Both followed the unwritten manual on growing up right in Deer Park, said their father, John Vigiano, a retired captain in the New York City Fire Department. They were active in sports. They became Eagle Scouts. They hatched pranks that were wicked in their creativity but gentle in their impact. "They never embarrassed me," said Captain Vigiano. "They were good fathers, good husbands and they were good men."

John Vigiano, at 36, was older by two years, though his brother never let him forget that he was also four inches shorter and maybe 30 pounds lighter, too. John was the quieter of the two, and spent as much time as possible with his two young daughters, his father said. He was a terrific hockey player (and rabid Rangers fan) and he would occasionally rent out an entire rink for his family, his brother's family and a few other friends.

Joseph Vigiano, who was known as Joey, loved to mug for the cameras and played lacrosse on the Police Department team, said his wife, Kathy, a fellow police officer. On the job, he was commended for his bravery: he survived being shot on three different occasions. At home, he taught his two boys how to build derby cars of pine. Eventually, he was going to do the same with his youngest son, now 6 months old.

For now, the Vigianos are collecting anecdotes and tributes from friends and relatives on a new Web site, Here, presumably, is one of the last stories: On the Sunday before Sept. 11, Kathy Vigiano returned home after the first game of the season in her soccer league, bruised and tired. She was prepared to make dinner, but instead, she saw that her husband had fixed prime rib, Caesar salad, mashed potatoes, and broccoli with cheese — while watching their baby, too. All this from a guy who had previously insisted that he only knew how to make spaghetti sauce.
- The New York Times 12/29/2001

"I THINK they're alive and fighting with one another like they did when they were growing up," retired Fire Capt. John Vigiano told me yesterday. "I can just hear John telling his younger brother Joe, 'Now listen to me, I know the way out of here better than you do.'"

Vigiano, 62, had just come back from a daily visit to the World Trade Center, where he believes his two sons - one a police officer, the other a firefighter - are trapped.

"It's the west quadrangle of the north tower," he said, relying on a veteran's instincts along with the knowledge of where the two departments assigned his sons last Tuesday.

"They called me every day before going to work and told me they loved me, and I told them I loved them," Vigiano said. He said Joseph called first and John a few minutes later.

"I told him to look out for his brother, he's working on the street," Vigiano said. "And that was it."

Vigiano is a legend even in a department where legends abound. He was given last rites twice in his 36 years of fighting fires. He was off a year while fighting throat cancer, and when he returned to work, he broke a shoulder. His father was a firefighter, and he wears a ring his father gave him.

"I'm going to pass this on to my grandson, Joseph, who is 8 now," he said.

The Vigianos, who live in Deer Park, are staying in a hotel in the city, and they are escorted by police everywhere they go. Vigiano appreciates what the police are doing to make him and his wife comfortable. "It means a lot to us. It's keeping us going."

Vigiano is a former Marine, and he enlisted by forging his mother's name to an application.

"The Marines didn't like that," he said. His pride in his sons is evident as he recalls their boyhood high jinks and their ability to sew and to cook.

His older son, John, 36, is a firefighter in Ladder 132 in Bedford-Stuyvesant, and his other son, Joe, 34, is a detective now working with the Police Department's Emergency Services Squad 3 in Harlem.

"I'm praying for a miracle," Vigiano said, his eyes welling up. "They are the light of our lives."

Vigiano and his wife, Jan, 61, are deeply religious. When I asked Jan how she coped in a family where her husband and a son fought fires and another son fought bad guys, she said, "I prayed."

There are a lot of firefighters and cops who are being tested by this ordeal. But few are being tested more than the Vigianos. It is impossible to understand their feelings because they are so singular. Few in the uniformed services have had to deal with the loss of two sons at the same time.

"Those boys were his twin towers," said First Deputy Commissioner Joseph Dunne, who was commanding officer of the 75th Precinct in East New York when Joe Vigiano worked there.

"He was one of the best cops I ever met," Dunne said of Joe Vigiano, who was wounded twice in street encounters.

Both of the Vigiano sons are married. John and his wife, Colette, have two girls, Colette, 5, and Ariana, 2. Joseph and his wife, Kathy, who is also a cop, have three boys - Joseph, 8, James, 6, and John, 3 months old.

John Vigiano has pictures of all of his grandchildren in his wallet. He's quick to show them. But his thoughts always come back to his two sons.

"Joe, he was the one who made people laugh. John was the serious one but he could raise hell, too. They are amazing boys and close. When Joe was about to become an Eagle Scout, John said to him, 'Wait for me, we'll do it together.' And they did a few months later."

Mario Zorvic, who worked with Joe Vigiano, said Joe "was a stand-up guy, always willing to do anything and help anybody."

"He was fun-loving, joking," Zorvic told Newsday's Sean Gardiner yesterday. "With so much of this work being tragedy, we have to joke around just to make it bearable. It's our way of dealing with tragedy."

The Vigianos met President George W. Bush at the Javits Center on Friday. "The president looked at Jan, my wife, and he said, 'She reminds me of my mother.'"

He pauses for a moment and then shakes his head, reflecting on the emotions he is feeling.

"Now I am finding out what my wife went through with me all these years. Firefighters are mostly kids at heart," he said.

Earlier, I watched Vigiano talking to young cops and firefighters who had come to an interfaith service in the police auditorium. They hung on his every word.

"I tell them that there are three things they need to pay attention to. The first is their family, the second is their unit and the third is their department," he said. "And I tell them to kiss their wives every morning."

Vigiano reflects on what he has seen in the past few days. "It is beyond belief. It's like a war. But we'll come back."

Being a firefighter is a calling. "It's not just a job. My sons went into that building not to fight a fire but to rescue people, to get them out of harm's way."

- New York Newsday Victim Database 9/18/2001

Detective Joseph V. Vigiano, 34, was appointed to the NYPD on April 28, 1987, and began his career on patrol in Field Training Unit 16. Prior to being assigned to ESU 2 in September 1998, he worked in ESU 7, as well as the 73 and 75 Precincts. One of the Department's most decorated members, he had been shot three separate times in the line of duty and often lectured other law enforcement agencies on his own time about police tactics. A volunteer firefighter, he held the position of fire commissioner in his hometown for several years. Recently promoted to second grade detective, he was scheduled to become a Cub Scout troop leader for his son's unit on the night of his death. Detective Vigiano is survived by his wife Kathleen, a police officer assigned to the 75 Precinct; children Joseph, James and John; and parents Jane and John. His brother, John, a New York City firefighter assigned to Ladder Co. 132, was also killed in the World Trade Center incident.
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